I know it seems kind of archach (did I spell that right?) to have locked myself away for most of my pregnancy, but I can't help it. I'm sure a big part of it has to do with the fact that I haven't been working so I have no money, but honestly I just don't like going out right now. First of all, I'm huge and super-obviously pregnant, and I hate it when people stare at me. Second of all, it's very hard for me to move around and stuff like that because all the weight I've gained is really hard on my joints and bones. I suppose that's it. I mean, all of my friends and stuff know that I'm pregnant--it's not like it's some big, huge secret--but I don't want to be seen like this, I guess. It makes me feel a little vain to admit that, but I can't really help it, and it'll be over soon.
Other than that, I've just really been dealing with helping getting things ready for my baby shower this Saturday. I've taken my maternity photos, and they've turned out great. Right now they're out being retouched and printed but I saw the raw contact sheets of a few photos and they really look great. I'm really pleased with the work done. Baby showers have never really been my cup of tea, but I guess I'm sort of looking forward. I'm not going to lie, I have one of those personalities that kind of scream "look at me, look at me!" but I actually really don't like being the center of attention at all.
There really hasn't been a lot for me to do lately as a whole, but I've mostly been looking forward to the things I'll be able to do after the babies are born, and getting ready for them. In the mean time I've just been doing what I can do to stay busy, such as making plans and stuff for my vlog that's on YouTube at BlackCanaryII (who incidentally is my favorite super heroine). Unfortunately, I haven't really felt up to updating lately, simply because I feel like crap all of the time, ha. But luckily updating my blog on here isn't actually very difficult. But, when you're in my position, it's helpful to have some tips on hand for dealing with this strange "pregnancy boredom":
- Try to Stay Active
- If you can, go for walks or swim or something that will keep your body in motion. For me, I tend to walk a lot because right now it's too cold to swim. If you're doctor has advised against walking, I would suggest floating around in a pool or at least flexing your limbs.
- Read Up
- Invest in a lot of books or magazines. Make sure you don't only get pregnancy magazines and books, though, because they'll just make you even more impatient about having your baby. Read what you wanted to read before you got pregnant and didn't have time for.
- Don't Underestimate the Power of the Internet
- I know it sounds dumb, but the internet has seriously been saving my life. Between the swarms of videos on YouTube and the games and networking on Facebook and the like, you can fill your day. Although, if you can help it, I wouldn't spend all day on the computer.
- Netflix or Blockbuster
- ...Can be your best friend. You know how your friends may have suggested movies for you to see but you never got around to it? Now's a great time to get around to it. Movies help pass time and trust me, you'll be thankful for it.
- Keep a Journal
- Or a blog or something of the like. If you don't have a lot of people to talk to, or feel like you don't, then a Journal or Blog or anything simular is a great way to vent and say what you need to say. If you decide to keep your writings private, it's the perfect opportunity to get out everything that you may be too afraid to say aloud, or are afraid of being judged for. Trust me, pregnancy is hard, and we all have had less than rainbow-bright thoughts.
- Keep Your Phone Close
- Keeping your phone on you is a smart idea, and not just for emergency reasons. Trust me, at some point you're going to need to reach out and will need your friends. And when your friends call or text you, you'll feel good to know that there's still someone that you can count on when you're feeling blue or bored out of your mind.
How are the babies, Jen? Hope things are going well. Thanks for stopping by my blog! :)
ReplyDeleteHey. Yep, things seem to be going along swimmingly with the babies, and they're already driving me crazy just like they're supposed to, haha. Any time. :)
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